Sirius Fun

Throughout my career, I have used ice breakers with mixed feelings about when and how to use them most effectively. With a group of strangers, they can be stressful. For groups that already function together, they can seem like a waste of time. Lately I have come to see them as a way to deepen connections among group participants at any stage. Most recently, I learned they can be used as “homework” for reflection and a chance to learn something new.

A friend was doing work with a group of colleagues and an outside facilitator. The actual work was on curriculum development, but the facilitator wanted to be sure there was good connection among the participants. Simple conversation during in person meetings led to some frustration about not being able to complete the necessary work. As they adjourned for the day, the facilitator asked them to bring a photo next time of something that sparks their curiosity. This is that photo…

This is Sugar Hill in Bristol, NH; a hill I drive past on a regular basis doing errands and going to work. In this picture you can see half the hill covered in deciduous trees in winter slumber and the other half covered in the green of conifers. Curiosity sparked by this scene, research was conducted, and amazing stories were discovered.

At one time it was clear cut. It has been farmed. Over time it returned to a more natural state with this clear division of tree types. Further research revealed there is a natural area on top accessed by a trail we had never seen. So we hiked it.

There is an old logging road that is still mostly clear that leads to some cool views. You are treated to scenes from a different angle than you would see driving through town. You can catch a glimpse of Newfound Lake in the distance. And if you keep walking, you have skipped town completely and come out close to the lake!

So, ice breakers, love ’em, hate ’em or learn from them? Like this seemingly simple suggestion to share something that makes you curious led to discovery of a new point of view for a town, maybe sharing curiosity can shift viewpoints within your group. Developing connection is important within any group, maybe curiosity will work better than introduction type ice breakers…

Be well.